Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Twisted Priorities

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Global Priority
$U.S. Billions

 

Cosmetics in the United States 8
Ice cream in Europe 11
Perfumes in Europe and the United States 12
Pet foods in Europe and the United States 17
Business entertainment in Japan 35
Cigarettes in Europe 50
Alcoholic drinks in Europe 105
Narcotics drugs in the world 400
Military spending in the world 780

 

Global Priority
$U.S. Billions


Basic education for all 6
Water and sanitation for all 9
Reproductive health for all women
12
Basic health and nutrition 13

 

Painful to think about, isn’t it?

I think, when we finally settle down, I might get into politics. I don’t know for sure, but I feel pretty passionate about this right now.

 

Shah, Anup. “Poverty Facts and Stats.” Global Issues, Updated: 28 Mar. 2010. Accessed: 20 Apr. 2010. <http://www.globalissues.org/article/26/poverty-facts-and-stats>

Re: Obesity

Dear Anonymous,

Thank you for writing. I am afraid I didn't think enough about how I might come across insensitively. The truth is, obesity in America is a sensitive subject. And I am drawn like a moth to the flame when it comes to controversial but important subjects. I need to be told if I am too blunt. I do that sometimes. This may be a subject that is one of those times.

I hope you can accept my apology. Thank you for being open about what must be a source of endless concern to you and a situation I know could happen to me one day. I didn’t realize that my post would be guilt-inducing. I didn’t want that.

But I didn't bring it up to suggest a causal relationship between overweight people and the starving people in India. That would almost be like the stereotypical mother-child relationship at dinner except in reverse: image

"Eat your food, there's starving people in China."

"But Mom, how will they get my dinner?"

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“Stop eating your food, there’s starving people in India.”

“But Kalli, how will the people in India get my fast food?”

I have a lot of sympathy for overweight people. In fact really food is something we all battle. Food in America is a modern wonder. I doubt that anywhere in the world exists grocery stores like America’s. Restaurants and fast food and cafeterias abound. The variety, the price, the convenience. Food is a joy and ultimately an irresistible temptation for us. And then our work lifestyles lead us to be sedentary. Of COURSE we struggle with our weight. I have struggled with my weight in the past. It is on every American woman's mind. It is a source of embarrassment, sorrow, pain, and exasperation for most of us. Any country who had the riches we do and the resources that we do would struggle with self control when it comes to food. Any Indian who saw the contents of our refrigerators and pantries would be shocked because there is no grocery store here that large.

I love food. I love to eat. I spend much more on food for myself than I donate to the hungry. I will continue to do so. I don't want to be hypocritical so let's make that clear.

I only wanted to point out that obesity in America is inequality in our world embodied. But even those of us who do not struggle with weight, struggle with eating more than is necessary. Obesity is just a symptom of a disease we all take part in as Americans. 20% of the world uses 80% of the world's resources.

I wanted to suggest that actually there is something that could be done about this problem of one country with so much they're literally dying of being fat while the rest of the world is dying from lack of food.

That something is taxes and regulation.

This idea, however, is so unpopular that I don't know that it could ever go over with the public.

People want to think, "I have the RIGHT to eat however much and whenever I want!" But while that may be true, what about this…

1. Do people who are poor have the right to live?

2. Do Americans have the responsibility to provide for other countries?

Am I wrong for thinking the answer to those two questions I have written above is yes? (That question isn’t hypothetical—I’m serious. What do my readers think?) I ask these questions because I think this is what it comes down to. And I don’t know that we Americans are united in the idea that we DO need to help poor countries. We do seem to be united in the idea that we need to enforce our military power around the world. But that could change if the American people wanted it. A focus on poverty instead of military might would cost much less—and do so much more.

Are we, as Americans, ready to accept a tax on our extremely cheap yet unhealthy fast food in order to provide for the hunger problems of other countries? Could we add a 1% tax to the fast food industry and use the money raised to research solutions to world hunger? Are we ready to stop subsidizing the cost of beef so that the true cost would have to be paid? Are we ready to pay farmers from other countries fair wages and enforce laws that would raise the price of food in America but ensure agricultural communities in undeveloped countries a decent revenue? Are we willing to admit that simply purchasing goods from other countries is not enough when the uneducated people who create those goods are exploited at the mercy of large corporations and powerful governments? That we have a responsibility to spread education and proper agricultural methods and fair business practices?

Does that sound unattainable? To me, nothing makes more sense.

This is the point of my post. Yes, there is something we can do with our excess. That is, convert it into money and use it responsibly for charitable causes via taxation and regulation.

Please, I’m open to ideas on this subject. People may feel that it will do no good to talk about these things because the problem is so huge. I like to think that thinking about them, discussing them and then taking Action on them could actually make a difference.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

More…

I’m going to write more about this issue of poverty because I want to explain why I’ve experienced a change in thinking. And really, my thoughts are still evolving on the subject.
In this post, written when I was living in Berlin, I thought that international aid should be limited because it only contributes to the problem. While I still feel that way in some ways, my views have changed. I believe I was limited in my thought at that point because I had never seen true poverty. And since it’s in my face every day here, of course I can’t help but think about it more.
I still am not converted to the idea that anyone in America is really “poor.”
For example, In 2007, 46% of poor households in the US owned their own homes, 30% had two or more cars, and 63% received cable or satellite TV. What’s more, education in the US is free; clean water is free; welfare stamps are available. Opportunity knocks for people to rise above their situation. I just can’t be as passionate about the poor in the US. Heck, I don’t own a home, a car, or get cable.home
Furthermore it is often pointed out that the poor in the US often can’t “even” afford to own a home. I don’t believe owning a home is a right or even a necessity. In Europe a significant number of people rent, not own their homes.
Reasons why I have changed my mind on international aid
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It started when I read that Bill Gates congratulated Obama on the fact that we were continuing our international aid even as we experienced economic problems.
I really admire Bill Gates. One, he’s a genius and an entrepreneur and one of the richest men in the world. Two, he uses his wealth as one of the most philanthropic men who ever lived. Three, he votes about equally Republican and Democrat and I admire people who can see both sides of the political question.
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I still think while the ideal would be for there to be an NGO to address every need of each impoverished nation in the world because they would run more efficiently and be able to focus more specifically on problems…right now that is not an option. The problem of global poverty as I can see it is much too big for the number of NGOs that currently exist and the financial support they receive.
Besides the overwhelming nature of the problem, the American government has the power to pressure other governments and to legislate and to dictate our foreign policy in a way that no NGO could.
In my last post I asked a question.
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“Why aren’t there politicians addressing the questions that really matter?”


In its wake I am forced to question if these issues are not at the forefront of political discussion because American politicians would prefer them to be hidden.

Exploring more causes of poverty…
Government corruption and ignorance
I used to have an awfully romantic view of the American government. Not the politicians themselves, but the way the process is set up. But any amount of research will show you that while we often provide a lot of support, money, education, what have you around the world, our policies in dealing with other countries often cause a lot of violence and corruption. It is our ignorance as Americans that allows these practices to continue as politicians and business dealers privately wheel and deal and pay people off. If we want to make a purchase of something, let’s be aware of what price it comes at. For example:
Oil
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Many countries that are rich in oil, gas and other minerals are nonetheless mired in poverty and poor government because the public revenues earned from selling these resources have been squandered through corruption and lack of government accountability to citizens.
Citizens of resource-rich countries cannot hold their governments to account, and ensure that mineral resources are used in a fair and sustainable way, unless they have full information about the management of these resources.
(Source: an interesting-looking NGO called Global Witness.)
Possible solution: Minimum standards in governance, transparency and human rights that must be fulfilled before approving oil, gas and mining projects in institutionally weak countries.
Diamonds
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The practice of having to purchase a diamond ring when getting married never used to bother me. It’s just one of those cultural things that you take for granted. Of course, you get a diamond ring when you get married. So what…you have to go into debt to buy it. So what…when you get married you probably are going to be relatively poor and young. So what…it would probably be better to invest in your 401k than a diamond. So what…come to think of it, you don’t even like diamonds. Oh well, you will probably get one. Everybody does it.
Diamond rings are one of the most fantastically successful advertisement campaigns ever created. No other country insists on this practice. Here in India, married women put red chalk in their hair. Now that sounds like that would be tiresome to have to do that constantly, but the point is, diamond rings are cultural—Not a sign of love.

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Diamonds are the cause of some of the bloodiest African conflicts. They have caused civil wars. They have resulted in the death and displacement of millions of people. That fact seems to be ignored, because, I mean, if you LOVE her you’ll buy her a BIG one! I’m going to post a picture of my beautiful ring on Facebook that only cost $2000 (plus 5 African lives).

diamond ring
I have a diamond ring, but honestly if I knew all of this at the time I probably would have insisted on an alternative. I don’t mean to be scathing. I think that people just honestly aren’t informed about the history of diamond rings.
Possible solution: Buy her a mutual fund. Okay, so that’s not romantic. Not all diamonds are blood diamonds. Do your research. Buy conflict-free or cultured (fake) diamonds. These are certified and traceable to be blood-free. Supposedly.
Drugs
The drug war is the cause of fighting all over the world. There is money in drugs. There will always be money in drugs. There is scarcity because they are illegal which increases demand.illegal-drugs2
Possible solution: Legalizing illegal drugs, regulating and taxing them. I honestly don’t know if that is the solution. I haven’t researched it enough. But right now a majority of the residents of our jails are in there for drugs. I feel like that is a huge cost to our economy and if they were legalized the trade would actually go down. It is a huge loss of revenue right now.
And if they were legal perhaps violence would abate…I would be interested in any opinions out there to influence me. For example how well has legalizing drugs worked out for the Netherlands?
Loans
Credit companies have been known to lend to Africa and other impoverished places knowing they would not be paid back, increasing the debt of both countries substantially.
Possible solution: Regulating more tightly international loans. Comprehensive debt relief should only be granted to countries that have demonstrated a basic commitment to good governance and tackling corruption.

Solutions to Poverty
I believe it comes down to education. A good education will make people more employable, develop skills, and bring power to the individual. Education of Americans in their actions in relation to the rest of the world will prevent them from acting contrary to their principles.
book open 
Currently, nearly a billion people entered the 21st century unable to read a book or sign their names. We could use our vast resources by creating literacy programs and schools in these countries.
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Transparency in government. The media needs to dig into these deals that are going on behind closed doors and bring them to light. Politicians need to be held accountable for what sort of transactions are taking place behind closed doors.
A change in US foreign policy. Poverty in other countries is not at the forefront of our foreign policy. I think it’s more like “might is right”. We’ve got military stations all over the world. We do huge arms deals. We glorify war. We glorify our soldiers.

army

I know to some this is a treasonous idea. But perhaps if there was not glory in war less of it would occur.
A change in US budget priorities. Less than one per cent of what the world spent every year on weapons was needed to put every child into school by the year 2000. Of course that didn’t happen.
The 2009 U.S. military budget is almost as much as the rest of the world's defense spending combined and is over nine times larger than the military budget of China.
That makes me sick.
A change in the US media priorities. When have you ever seen in the national media that the policies of our countries could actually be the cause of the equivalent of a Haiti earthquake in the form of poor people’s deaths every 9 days?
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Why does the kidnapping of one rich American news make the news for a week, but the death of I don’t know how many children every second in sub-Saharan Africa rarely if ever make the headlines?
Why isn’t it talked about that the global financial crisis, caused by rich countries, will cause an additional death count of 200,000 to 400,000 children in poor countries?
Why is this not talked about?
I want an answer…
I think that one answer might be that the US has to be primarily concerned with their own interests. But I see country lines as arbitrary distinctions. They didn’t always exist and they will change over time. Humanity can’t be divided by country lines.
I’m afraid that the answer is that if you are poor you don’t matter…at least not in the eyes of the United States. I’m afraid we believe that the life of one rich white American teenager is far more significant than the lives of 20 million uneducated, unrepresented, impoverished black children.
I have hope that this can change.

In an upcoming post I hope to delve deeper into American foreign policy and the reasons we choose to invade other countries.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Three years starts today…

No comments on the last post means I (Kalli) am back ;) It’s been two years since the day we got married, but Jacob thought it was three ;) It does feel like a long time we’ve been married. We have moved probably something like 40 times in those two years.
There’s a saying that says date with your eyes wide open and keep your eyes half shut once you’re married. But I feel like I did the opposite. I didn’t know I was marrying a genius when we got married. I knew he was smart. I didn’t know his was the sharpest mind I had ever come across. It was a pleasant surprise to learn after getting married…I’m a very lucky woman.
Here we are eating out for our anniversary on top of the Salt Lake City Center:

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Here are some other random pics from what we’ve been up to…

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They keep human fetuses in the Indian Museum….very strange….





We had dinner with a lovely family yesterday. They taught me an easy way of wearing the sari….fed us…gave us gifts, a card to celebrate our anniversary, and overall just spoiled us…
Popular Bengali dish of minced fried fish and mustard/ketchup

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These are what you wear in the middle of your forehead. I was told it is the third eye. It keeps your body cool and completes the face. I think they are so pretty.

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Saturday, April 17, 2010

Be the change you want to see in the world

The longer I stay in India, the more I love the country, and the more sad I become.

I love it more because I realize more and more the quality of these people. They are so generous, loving, and kind. They are friendly and surprisingly honest despite their poverty. Kolkata wishes to get rid of its image of the poorest of the poor brought to it with the attention from Mother Teresa. And I hope they have made progress. But…because I admire these people, it is difficult to see them living in the situation that they do.
Want to see how rich you are compared to the rest of the world? Visit

Because India has a third of the world’s poor. A third! One country! Nearly HALF of the country falls below the poverty line.
And you’d think that, being surrounded by so many people, I might begin to think that a single life isn’t worth as much. But on the contrary, I have strengthened in my belief that all life is sacred.

Hunger and malnutrition are the number one risk to health worldwide — greater than AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis combined.

The compelling truth is this: never before in human history has such a large percentage of our species—nearly 20 percent—been malnourished. Each year, between 40 million and 60 million people around the world die from hunger and related diseases. Sadly, the toll is heaviest on the world's children.

I don’t mean to be harsh, but it is difficult to think of this disparity:
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67 % of adults over 20 in the US are overweight and obese
18% of adolescents are overweight/obese in the US
26% of children are overweight/obese in the USmalnourished

49% of the world's underweight children live in India
34% of the world's stunted children live in India
46% of the world's wasted children live in India

Finally, the ultimate irony….
About 1.2 billion people suffer from hunger
About 1.2 billion people suffer from obesity

To be surrounded by such skinny, skinny people day in and day out is very difficult. And less than half of a percent of US GDP is spent on alleviating world hunger! What a difference if we even doubled it. If we raised it to 3 percent…how many lives would that save yearly???
One of the MAJOR CAUSES of poverty is the use of arable land (which is limited) to create resources which do not provide nourishment in the form of food. This is of especial importance to the Mormons:
The top 2 wasteful resources are TOBACCO and COFFEE/TEA. And to you fellow vegetarians out there, you might be interested to know another major cause is BEEF (because the cost of feeding livestock is wasting food that could be used to feed people). Growing coffee and tea and tobacco are important ways of making a living for the world’s poor. However, if the demand decreased, the land could be used to grow other, more important resources such as food.
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Source: http://www.globalissues.org/article/7/causes-of-hunger-are-related-to-poverty
And don’t get me started on illegal drugs. Afghanistan, the country we know as one of the poorest and least educated, is also the largest illegal opium and hashish producer. You know those people who say “Try everything once”? That should not apply to illegal drugs. This is a major cause of the world’s hunger problem, and the cause of much violence as well. Those who use illegal drugs must know that this is more than their own lives at stake.
Ultimately, this comes down to politics. Hunger comes from poverty and poverty is caused by largely bad economics and bad economics often comes from bad politics. There are politics in how food is produced and where and for whom.
Where are the politicians talking about the real major crises of the world? When will the politicians address the things that actually matter?
I’m tired of hearing politicians talk about terrorism. That affects such a small portion of people, besides which perhaps one of the major causes of terrorism IS poverty. When you have nothing, there is nothing to stop you when you are desperate…
I’m tired of Republicans who only worry about war and soldiers and terrorism and defense and nuclear power, and I’m tired of Democrats who want to take money from the fairly wealthy of the US and redistribute it to the only slightly less wealthy of the US. Where is the politician who talks financial restraint and responsibility while generously helping those who are actually in need around the world?
The LDS Church does something lovely monthly. It asks us to go without food for 2 meals for one day per month and donate that money to be used to feed others around the globe. I would like to urge everyone, LDS or not, to think about doing this, and to raise the amount of money you normally donate monthly. I feel that the fate of the 16,000 children who die daily from lack of food is resting on the shoulders of ourselves, the world’s wealthiest.
Fast Sunday is going to forever mean something different to me after living in India. homeless
For me, unfortunately poverty was incomprehensible until I saw it. homeless
I saw thousands of people lying in the streets…homeless person
I saw children wandering through awful traffic begging for food…
I saw men with thighs the size of my wrists…

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I saw groups of people bathing in the streets…

I saw men going to the bathroom in public because there was no where else to go…
And I knew these people were my brothers and sisters and I was witnessing their slow demise (life expectancy in India: 64.7 years).
It was only then that I realized that I was part of the problem because I wasn’t actively working to end it.
But once again, hunger is only a symptom of the problem. The real solution has to be rooting out the causes of poverty.
Here are ways you can help:
1. Influence public policy to support poor people (and not U.S. kind of poor, real poor). Here is a letter you can send to your Congressman http://www.poverty.com/letters/united_states.html
2. Contribute financially. Here is a way to give 1 cup of food to people daily: Visit http://www.thehungersite.com/
Here is a game to play that donates rice to the poor: http://www.freerice.com/index.php
Donate one dollar to help meet the goal of the UN World Food Programme: https://www.wfp.org/donate/fillthecup
Make neoaid.com your homepage and just by searching the internet, donations will be made to charitable causes for free
3. Work with poor people themselves. Vacation in poor countries, stimulate the economy of those countries, and find ways to volunteer with the poor
4. Get educated on poverty, its causes, and what you can do to help
5. Avoid overconsumption (buying what you don’t want or need and allowing it to go to waste)
6. Avoid giving money to people on the streets. This is a difficult one for me, as I am surrounded by poor people on the streets. But I know it’s better to give it to an organization than to people who might end up using it on drugs or the child sex trade or something.
7. This is a tough one…but consider giving up or at least going without a couple days/week of tobacco, coffee/tea, and beef.
8. Those of you who know me know I used to be the most awful cheapskate ;) Fortunately I am a recovered cheapaholic. Not that saving money is bad. But make saving money go to something worthwhile. Thinking only about money and ways to keep it for yourself is just as bad, in my mind, as thinking constantly about money in order to spend it. Find ways to save money not for yourself, but to actually donate it to a worthy cause.
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There is something that oddly comforts me despite being surrounded by poverty, however. Mother Teresa said that the true poverty of the world is the feeling of being unloved and unwanted. And while the Indians may suffer hunger, I feel they understand love, and perhaps in some ways Westernized countries have it worse off after all—Mother Teresa was most afraid at the loneliness and isolation that pervaded our culture.

What are your solutions to fighting poverty?

By the way, I told Jacob he needed to write a post so the blog could be lightened up a bit. Thank goodness, the man balances me out. Everyone comment and tell Jacob to write a post :)

Thursday, April 15, 2010

8 things

I remembered seeing some friends fill this out long ago but I only just now felt like filling it out cause I'm not tired but I feel like writing a blog post.

RULES
1. Post rules on your Blog.
2. Answer the six "8" items.
3. Let each person know they have been tagged by leaving them a comment.

8 FAVORITE SHOWS
I hope shows can be movies because actually I don't know if I've ever watched a total of 8 TV shows in my life.
1. Edward Scissorhands
2. The Rocketeer
3. The Last Unicorn
4. The Princess Bride
5. Hook
6. Saved By the Bell Seasons One and Two
7. Saved By the Bell Seasons Three and Four
8. Saved By the Bell Seasons Five (uh...this is really hard...I don't watch much. All the shows I like to watch are nostalgic ones from my childhood.)

8 THINGS I DID YESTERDAY
1. Tutored Bernard at Missionaries of Charity's Daya Dan, a home for orphaned boys with disabilities
2. Rode a taxi, and several autorickshaws, and a cycle rickshaw. And walked out on one, incidentally, because the driver was bizarrely trying to get me to sit next to him on his seat instead of the back like usual, so I left (easy to do since there are no doors).
3. Dressed in a lovely outfit of a salwar kalweez. A long maroon shirt with beads on it, and billowy yellow pants, with a yellow scarf slung on backwards. I love Indian clothing.
4. Ate my favorite breakfast, aloo parantha. Spicy potato-filled bread with plain yogurt and sugar
5. Held a business meeting with my partner
6. woke up super early (for me) which is 7:30.
7. listened to Grooveshark. Current plays are Alanis Morissette, The Cranberries, Muse
8. Finished up a book on marriage from the 1930's; it was entertaining

8 THINGS I LOOK FORWARD TO

1. As always, the next trip. Thailand/Cambodia is the next plan
2. Having a home of our own which hopefully will include a recording studio, a large kitchen, a beautiful back yard with a garden, a recreation room, offices for Jacob and I, and a gym. It will also hopefully be located in the center of a large city while still providing plenty of space and privacy. I know, a tall order.
3. Talking to family and friends on the phone
4. End of world hunger
5. Speaking of which, the end of my hunger via my next meal
6. Seeing Jacob when he gets home from the gym
7. Sleeping after volunteering
8. Learning something new

8 FAVORITE RESTAURANTS
1. Thai Ruby's
2. Cassandra's
3. Olive Garden
4. Salt Lake City Center in Kolkata
5. Our cook
6. Any Berlin restaurant
7. Any place that serves chips and salsa
8. Anything ethnic/unusual

8 THINGS ON MY WISH LIST
I wish...
1. That people everywhere could be afforded the basic necessities of life. This includes adequate nutrition, clean water, health care, freedom, equality, and education--what most of us take for granted but really are denied to the majority of the world's inhabitants
2. I sometimes wish that people I loved didn't change
3. that people didn't smoke because I have allergies
4. that I could finally formulate an idea for the book I'd love to write someday
5. that everyone would start their own online business because they would love it
6. that I could meet Jesus or Mother Teresa or Julie Andrews or Tim Feriss or Gordon B Hinckley or Benjamin Franklin or Margaret Mitchell or other people who have lived inspiring lives
7. That everyone could meet the love of their life like I have
8. that I were witty.

8 PEOPLE TO TAG
I am so behind on this that I don't dare tag anyone. I figure this is out-of-date. But do it if you like.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Thank U India


"Thank U"
how bout getting off these antibiotics
how bout stopping eating when I'm full up
how bout them transparent dangling carrots
how bout that ever elusive kudo
thank you india
thank you terror
thank you disillusionment
thank you frailty
thank you consequence
thank you thank you silence
how bout me not blaming you for everything
how bout me enjoying the moment for once
how bout how good it feels to finally forgive you
how bout grieving it all one at a time
thank you india
thank you terror
thank you disillusionment
thank you frailty
thank you consequence
thank you thank you silence
the moment I let go of it was the moment
I got more than I could handle
the moment I jumped off of it
was the moment I touched down
how bout no longer being masochistic
how bout remembering your divinity
how bout unabashedly bawling your eyes out
how bout not equating death with stopping
thank you india
thank you providence
thank you disillusionment
thank you nothingness
thank you clarity
thank you thank you silence
Alanis Morissette wrote these lyrics after visiting India. I believe she, like anyone visiting India, was humbled to understand what it means to live in India and what it means to have truly nothing.
I gave a talk on gratitude on Sunday which also happened to be Easter. They don’t watch General Conference here because the hours are so off.
It went over pretty well. I guess it did, because the branch president asked Jacob to speak on the same thing, haha. He’s like, “Will you give a talk next week? How about on….gratitude! I love gratitude talks!” Knowing Jacob would prefer not to talk on that seeing as I just did, I intervened and suggested another subject.
Anyway coming to India has changed me maybe more than any other place we have visited. I will get teary every time thinking about the little boy I tutor who is so happy and who loves to learn. He always greets me with a smile, and you’d never know by the expression on his face he had cerebral palsy and an inability to really speak or stand or barely hold a pencil, and a family who abandoned him to a home of nuns. He is so happy for the little things, like getting to read a book.
The meaning of happiness and God’s plan for us has really changed for me too after coming here. I know that God loves all of His children, and for purposes we don’t completely understand, He puts us in different circumstances here on Earth. The atonement of Jesus Christ occurred so that all things would one day be made right. And no matter what the situation, how grateful we can be just for the experience of it all.
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